Every ministry has students like these â€“ here are a few ways to â€œgo after themâ€ and invite them to be a part of the ministry:
No on sits alone.
When you talk to your student leaders, make sure they know that â€œno one sits alone.â€ Determine that when someone visits for the first time (or the 21st time) theyâ€™re going to feel welcome. Prepare them with some basic questions to get the conversation going, and cast the vision time and time again: No one sits alone!
Consider adding a short greeting time.
Weâ€™ve recently added in a short greeting time (we stole the idea from big church), and have seen it work wonders. Put your core students on notice that everyone gets greeted, smiled at, and touched in some way. Adding a greeting time is a short and somewhat artificial taste of community, but itâ€™s a chance to break down the walls of the wallflowers.
Add discussion questions to your program.
If youâ€™re looking to build community in your youth service, what about inviting students to discuss the message right there in their row or at their table? If youâ€™ve got a great volunteer in the room, make sure he/she ison the lookout to get everyone involved in the discussion, too.
Invite someone out for a Coke each week.
Ask God to direct you to the right student he wants you to give special attention to this week. When he points you to the right student, invite them out for a Coke and use the time to pour into them one-on-one. Most students who feel like losers or are lonely will find little help at a large group program, but would come alive across the table at Taco Bell.
This post was written by Josh Griffin and Kurt Johnston and originally appeared as part of Simply Youth Ministry Today free newsletter. Subscribe to SYM Today right here.