- What is Attractional youth ministry?
- Is it Good or Bad?
Hope it helps,
Kurt & AC
I believe that sharing Christ is our number one responsibility as a believer. When we give our lives to Christ we are commanded to share the good news with others. Now, I know that there are a lot of tools and resources out there on how to share your faith. That’s a good thing because I don’t believe that there is a set way to do it. So whatever you’re doing or using, keep it up.
When I was younger I was taught the Romans Road which was great. However, I was to scared to share in fear that if I ever got off the road, I wouldn’t be able to find my way back. Two thoughts would run through my mind as I shared the gospel:
Needless to say, I did whatever I could not to share my faith with others.
I know that I have students in my ministry who probably think the same way that I did. However, it’s an invalid excuse not share your faith, because there are no valid excuses when it comes to sharing your faith. We’ve all been mandated as believers to share the good news of Christ. So I decided to help them by teaching them to share their faith through their own experience versus just head knowledge.
Also, there are some things that I’ve learned that really hinders us from sharing our faith effectively. I thought I’d share them with the youth ministry nation. So here they are:
Sharing our faith should come natural and should be a huge part of what we do. We have the cure to sin, which is a disease with eternal implications. We need to share it with an urgency and not let anything hinder us. What other tips would you add to the list?
Hope it helps,
Wrestling with the idea of student leadership in your ministry? Having trouble landing on a model/strategy that feels right? Here are three possible scenarios:
Organic student leadership doesn’t rely on a program; there are no monthly gatherings, no “requirements” etc. Instead, an Organic approach is one that simply looks for leaders to emerge and then gives those leaders more ownership, responsibility and input in the ministry. In essence, it believes that the “cream always rises to the top” and looks for those students who, mostly on their own, are setting themselves apart from the pack. In an Organic scenario, leadership is freely and generously distributed to anybody who expresses and interest…because most don’t. There is no formal program, but there is tons of student leadership happening. At Saddleback, we use this strategy within our junior high ministry.
Pros: Student leadership is available to everybody, no program required.
Cons: It lacks formality and structure and is tough to measure
An “Organized, but…” approach to student leadership is simply that; it’s organized to some degree, but not to an extreme. In this approach there may be meetings, applications, requirements for membership, a set curriculum, etc. But which of those things exist, and which don’t would be somewhat arbitrary and may change from time to time. At Saddleback, we use this strategy within our High School ministry.
Pros: Structure, strategy, measurable results, ability to identify who’s part of program, lots of
Cons: The flexibility may create too much inconsistency, a feeling of “is this what I signed up for?”
An “Organized, and….” approach is simply that; it’s organized, and then some! It’s highly organized, with a well-defined strategy and systematic approach. In addition to meetings, applications, requirements for membership, a set curriculum etc. this model will often include other things such as students being nominated, voted in by their peers, given a large amount of decision making power etc. This model may also toss in some T-shirts and name badges, too. In essence, this model looks very similar to a student government model found in most school settings.
Pros: Student leadership is for the serious! It weeds out the only mildly interested. Those who are in
are usually All-in!
Cons: Can create an elitist mentality among members; a “cool kids” club. Is very high maintenance.
There are lots of ways to identify leadership gifts and develop leadership skills in your youth group. virtually any approach is acceptable. Doing nothing, however, probably isn’t.
I received this text the other day from a friend: “Age old question….what’s your cleanest definition of discipleship?”
My quick text back: “Intentionally helping people walk with Jesus.”
Now, I don’t think that’s the best definition of discipleship. Heck, I’m not even sure it’s my best definition of discipleship. And this got me thinking about the fact that there are a fair number of words/phrases that we use in our youth ministry world that refuse to be bound to a simple, clean definition. So for fun, let’s define some of these together to see how similar/how far apart the youth worker nation is on these terms. No right or wrong answers…but maybe some fun “debate”. Pick one…or all….of the words/phrases below and give your best, short(ish) definition in the comments!
- ATTRACTIONAL YOUTH MINISTRY
- MINISTRY VALUES
- MISSION STATEMENT
- PURPOSE STATEMENT
- SOCIAL JUSTICE
- THE GOSPEL
Let’s Talk Youth Ministry Video Blog is BACK!!!!!!!!!!!! And we are posting a NEW SHOW EVERY WEEK. We’ve added a bunch of great new things to the video blog. One of the things that I’m super excited about is the fact that we are giving resources away. Watch to find out how. Send Questions to: Letstalkyouthministry@gmail.com
On Today’s Show:
Hope it helps
Kurt & AC
- Have you heard of the new app, Yik Yak? It’s gaining popularity and raising a ton of concerns along the way. I’m not an alarmist by nature, but I downloaded it a few days ago and gotta admit that it spooked me as a youth worker. Wanna get an eye-full of teen culture at a glance? Download the app, then head in the vicinity of your local high school.
- Saw the late Paul Walker’s movie, Brick Mansions, yesterday with a buddy. Other than really cool fight/action scenes, it wasn’t worth the investment (and with the price of movies what they are, it is an investment!).
- Just read a really great little article about the importance of asking good questions, along with a list of the 35 best questions leaders can ask about/of their organization. Not all 35 apply to ministry, but some do….and they are really good! It’s not available online, so you’ll have to go buy the April edition of Inc. Magazine.
- On Easter, We launched a new campus in Los Angeles…Hollywood to be specific. After two weeks, it’s running almost 900 people! Normally we hire a part-time youth pastor to start, and that may be the case here, too, but we may hire full-time out of the gate. I’m looking for somebody who is familiar with LA culture and has a heart for the city. If anybody comes to mind, let me know!
- In a few minutes, me and my buddy AC (One of our awesome high school pastors) will shoot our first episode of the new, revamped video blog/podcast we are calling “Let’s Talk Youth Ministry”. When Jason and I quit doing the Simply Youth Ministry Show, we thought it would disappear quietly, but that hasn’t been the case. I’ve been shocked by the number of people who have approached me asking why we don’t do the show anymore, when it’s coming back, etc. So, we decided to bring it back…sort of. Jason and I always had trouble coordinating our schedules, and would have to shoot FOUR episodes at a time which meant they never felt current or in real-time. So one of the changes that AC and I will bring this time is that we will be posting a new episode every Wednesday! We are also hoping to get some video contributions from the Y#MNation. If you’d like to appear on the show, simply shoot a 45-second video on your phone and email it to firstname.lastname@example.org The video can fall into one of 3 categories:
1) A question about youth ministry you’d like us to address.
2) An “I can’t believe I did this” story of failure, idiocy, “oops” etc. from your ministry.
3) A 45-second sermon, word of encouragement, exhortation etc. to the YM Nation!
“Let’s Talk Youth Ministry”, the short little video blog that me and my friend A.C. (who has written some great blog posts on this very site) have done very sporadically is gonna start taking itself a bit more seriously. Starting next week we will have a new, 15-20 minute post every Wednesday. It will be sort of like the old “Simply Youth Ministry Show”, but not.
One new thing we’d like to try is guest appearances via video from members of the youth ministry nation! Here’s how that will work (we hope)…You film a super short (30 seconds) video and email it to email@example.com and we’ll make you a guest on the show. Video categories include:
* “Can You Talk About…” - Simply put your youth ministry question in video format and send it in!
* “I Can’t Believe I Did That!” - Share a bonehead story, mistake, or embarrassing ministry moment.
* “30-seconds of Wit or Wisdom” - Share something on your heart, share a joke, inspire us in 30-seconds.
Be sure to start the video by giving us your name and the city/church you are from.
Hey, if we’re willing to put a horrendous cartoon of ourselves on this post, you should be willing to put yourself on a short little video!
Make a video…send it to us…and together we’ll talk youth ministry!
Kurt and AC
One thing that has been drilled into the minds of parents everywhere is that keeping the lines of communication open with our children is a vital part of parenting. And in my experience this tid-bit of advice has been very true. And so as Rachel and I have raised our kids, we’ve worked hard to provide an atmosphere in our family where it’s always a good time to talk about stuff.
And while that’s been a good “atmosphere”, it’s actually a lousy strategy. Because it isn’t “always a good time to talk about stuff”. The fact is that sometimes it’s a lousy time to talk about stuff; and everybody seems to have different ideas of when it’s a good time, and when it’s not.
So, my simple tip for today is this: Discover your child’s “window of conversation” and do most of your talking at that time.
Your child may HATE to talk in the car ride to school…the window is closed, so don’t force it.
Your child may LOVE to talk in the car ride to school…the window is open, climb through!
Your child may HATE to talk around the dinner table…the window is closed, so don’t force it.
Your child may LOVE to talk around the dinner table…the window is open, climb through!
Your child may HATE to talk in formal family “quality time” settings….the window is closed, so don’t force it.
Your child may LOVE to talk in formal family “quality time” settings….the window is open, climb through!
Your child may HATE to talk about something in the “heat of the moment”…the window is closed, so don’t force it.
Your child may LOVE to talk about something in the “heat of the moment”…the window is open, climb through!
The problem many parents make is to determine when THEY want to talk with their child instead of being wiling to pay attention to when their child is most open to talking….when their window of conversation is open. When we try to force open their window, they slam it shut!
So much of effective parenting needs to happen on our terms, but I’m not convinced conversation and communication is always one of them.