Every week we have the opportunity to impact the lives of the teenagers that step through our doors. Let’s make the most of it. Their view of God is often shaped by what we say, how we respond, and what we do. Are they getting a clear picture of the God we are in love with? A few things that have been floating through my head lately:
- How well we listen to and engage our kids will have a great impact than how well we speak or talk.
- Somewhere in your youth ministry is a teenager who need to have a conversation with a caring adult. Will you be that adult?
- Sometimes you may only get 30 seconds with a teenager. If so, let it be 30 seconds where they felt absolutly cherished and treasured.
- You have one shot to be the youth pastor God has created you to be. One shot. Don’t get distracted by your insecurities or by the numbers or by what the other person is doing down the street. Focus on what God wants to do in YOUR ministry. Follow His lead.
- Don’t over entertain but under challenge.
- Be willing to call greatness out of your kids.
- Don’t give out of an empty tank. Nurture your relationship with God. Nobody should care more about your own spiritual growth than you do.
- If yo’ure frustrated because your kids aren’t doing something … lead them to do it. It’s not that “My kids won’t do ______________.” Rather it’s “I haven’t led my kids to do _____________.”
- Be positive. Start talking to yourself rather than listening to yourself.
- Let your kids know that you are proud of them. Teenagers don’t hear that enough.
- Your story may be exactly what they need to hear.
Every week we have the opportunity to impact the lives of teenagers. What an awesome priviledge. Let’s make the most of it.
- Rich Yauger is the pastor to teenagers at Grace Community Church and believes in teenagers.You can check out his blog right over here.