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The Price of Moral Failure

 —  November 1, 2011 — 2 Comments

DougFields.com blog is coming up on a year old and it is easily the best blog in youth ministry – this guest post from Marv Penner on it in my mind is up for post of the year. Marv goes into detail about a document that has helped him stay faithful to his calling and his spouse for his neara-countless years in youth ministry. Amazing stuff, you need to read and process the full post over there. Here’s a clip:

I was a young man in ministry when I wrote a document that I have read hundreds of times over the last three decades. It was born on a personal spiritual retreat when I asked God to protect my marriage from the damage that would occur if I would cross my moral boundaries (See Monday’s post & Tuesday’s post). I try to read this document every time I get on a plane or check into a hotel. I regularly make it a part of my personal quiet time and review it often. It started on paper and is now conveniently synched on my iPad and laptop. It has been edited an amended often to reflect changes in my circumstances, but the essential message has remained the same.

I have never shared this highly personal document this way and after you read it I’ll tell you why I have second thoughts even as I Doug to post it today.


When I feel vulnerable to sexual temptation I must take the time to count the cost that even one bad choice could have…


Josh Griffin


2 responses to The Price of Moral Failure

  1. It’s very true.

    A few moments of pleasure or a lifetime of pain. Not only pain of what you have done but pain to those around you. Spouse. Children. Parents. Church congregation.

    Even though I’m not married, I remind myself that If I’m not accountable to nobody else, I’m accountable to God. Just like the scriptures say:

    For ye are bought with a price: therefore glorify God in your body, and in your spirit, which are God’s.
    1 Corinthians 6: 20

  2. Benjamin Spears November 3, 2011 at 8:44 am

    Great post fer sure. Something I recommend to EVERY GUY (certainly all my teenagers) is x3watch free edition. It’s accountability software that records the times/dates along with the links of questionable material that you might click on and then sends the list to an accountability partner’s email (I think you can choose two). I’ve got my wife as my accountability partner–basically it’s a choice to be totally transparent with her and it’s definitely the extra incentive for me not to click on stuff I know I shouldn’t. Oh– and did I mention that it’s TOTALLY FREE!

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