When life seems to be perfect; you are number one go-to in the ministry, you have many friends you can rely on, everyone always says how wonderful and vibrant you are, itâ€™s easy to begin to think that you are, well, perfect. Or maybe you are the one that thinks that you are better than everyone, like people owe you and that you never do anything wrong and are, well, perfect. When you think you are perfect, you will not open yourself up to correction and become teachable and just remain, well, perfect. I donâ€™t know if youâ€™ve been told, but no one is perfect, no one except Jesus. Philippians 1:6 says, â€œAnd I am certain that God, who began the good work within you, will continue his work until it is finally finished on the day when Christ Jesus returns.â€Â Like this scripture says, none of are perfect, not until the day of Christ but we should open ourselves to correction and become teachable.
Accepting correction defined
Accepting correction goes beyond listening.Â To truly accept correction means to change your ways.
How to accept correction
So, to first hear correction without writing it off as someone else picking on you, youâ€™ve got to make a conscience daily decision to be teachable. Second, you want to check it out! Is what they are saying Biblical or are they just disagreeing with what you have said or done? You check it out by going to God and honestly asking Him to show you what is inside of your heart and look up what He says about it. Dig in a little further and look up sermons or check out some Christian blogs on the situation. From there, you will know whether to go to step 3 or if you are just fine where you are regarding this particular situation. Lastly, to truly accept correction, youâ€™ve got to change your ways.
It is not easy hearing that you are not perfect and that you have impurities within yourself, but truth is, we all do. Impurities are, without a doubt, easier to ignore than to confront but I guarantee you that God has a plan for you and He wants to clean your heart from any impurities that may be holding you back. Proverbs 19:20 says, â€œListen to advice and accept correction and in the end you will be wise.â€ So right now, ask God to search you, search your motives and your ways and accept any correction that is being given to you.
Next week: Giving Correction
Ashley Fordinal is the Childrenâ€™s Church volunteer at Family Life Church in Sulphur Springs, TX.